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creating real conversation with people who are redefining what's possible.

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"we oftentimes end up creating the very thing a previous version of ourselves needed"

colin rocker, founder of for the firsts

our story

Being a "first" is a strange kind of lonely. You're the one in your family, your field, or your friend group doing the thing nobody around you has done before. There's nobody to call who's been exactly where you are now. And the rooms that were supposed to help (the mixers, meetups, and networking events) mostly made it worse. You'd leave with a pocket full of contacts and no actual connection.

Our founder, Colin Rocker, knew that feeling firsthand. As @careercolin, he built an audience of hundreds of thousands by talking honestly about work - the parts of building a career nobody teaches you when you're figuring it out without a blueprint. The advice reached millions. But advice travels one way. What people kept asking for was a room.

So in early 2025, he built one. Not another mixer, but a monthly gathering in New York with just two rules: no job titles, and no pitching. Instead of small talk, we shared thoughtful discussion prompts. Instead of "what do you do," people talked about who they are and what they're building towards.

The goal was simple: put impressive people in a good room, give them a real question, and watch what happens next.

connection > contacts

A year in, For The Firsts had grown to nearly 10,000 professionals, founders, and creatives, most of them balancing a corporate career with something of their own on the side.

Our mission is to create true connection through conversation for those redefining what's possible. And we do that in three unique ways:

conversation

Each of our gatherings are guided by prompts written to get past your resume. No small talk, and no pitching. Just real questions worth answering.

curiosity

Firsts are builders by necessity. We stay curious about each other's paths because nobody in this room followed a script to get where they are.

connection

The goal is never a bigger contact list. It's to meet people who know your story, root for your next chapter, and show up when it matters most.

first, but not last

Our mission is to create true connection through conversation for those charting their own path.

For The Firsts has expanded to a dinner series, podcast, and more, and we hope to be in multiple cities soon!